A little update!

Hey, peeps!

I just wanted to post a quick update to let everyone know I’m doing pretty well!

Going on with life, for sure, and having a good amount of fun while I’m at it. I’m very determined to have some fun and it’s working!

Colleen is ok, but there are issues there. Overall, I think she is handling things really well. About what I expected, I would say. Sorry, but I don’t actually feel that for her privacy it’s a good idea to elaborate here.

Petey, the dog, is actually probably handling things worst of all! Troy was in charge of letting him out every morning. He has adjusted to my schedule, but he does very odd things … like crawls into Colleen’s room in the mornings and wakes her up, whines a lot at random times. He just needs more attention. I’m trying, but he is so quiet most of the time, I just don’t think of the poor guy!

People keep asking me how Troy is and all I can say is you need to ask him, not me! I don’t mean that in a bad way, but I’m sure he would appreciate the call. If you need his number, let me know. We see each other about twice a week and have to talk about finances, Colleen and things like that, but we aren’t sitting around swapping stories about how we are doing just yet.

Anyway, I do appreciate all of the support I’m getting. I kind of find it funny how different people react to this situation. Some people want me to rage and say bad things. Some people are completely understanding to the point of being sick over it. Some people seem to be avoiding me. It’s just all so unusual! I’m going to write a book or two one of these days. I really am. I think my first one might be along the theme of how to treat friends in really awkward situations … ’cause I seem to have experience in that from all kinds of angles!

Author: rosie

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  1. if you could write a book on what to say in awkward times, i would certainly buy it. It would be an Oprah best seller i’ll predict 🙂

    Jen

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  2. One of the things I noticed was the fall out of seperation…. you aren’t divorced and you haven’t given up…. so people didn’t know what to say or do.

    You’ll notice friendships and relationships change. Boy was that hard to swallow.. friends for the 15 years we’d been together suddenly not returning phone calls… but it got better and my friendships with others got stronger.

    Enjoy some fun! It will make you feel younger and more energized.
    -d

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